Spreading Knowledge of Proper Romantic Practices
The ultimate goal for humans is “happiness.” When applied to romantic relationships, the most ideal scenario is for both partners to achieve happiness.
Biologically, our instincts drive us to prioritize our own happiness, often at the expense of others. This leads to the simplistic conclusion that exploiting one’s partner for personal gain is an effective strategy. However, in reality, the most beneficial approach is one where the partner willingly provides benefits.
To put it simply, rather than trying to “deceive the partner to gain one-sided advantage,” it is more effective to “make the partner happy so that they naturally want to reciprocate.”
Many romantic guides and instructional materials focus on how to skillfully deceive one’s partner. However, the real focus should be on “how to ensure mutual happiness.” It is essential for many men and women in society to have the opportunity to learn this knowledge.
About love for more people
As long as there is no loss or mutation of information, human abilities are largely determined by the environment.
Therefore, there is little inherent superiority or inferiority among individual humans.
Hence, it becomes possible to achieve the happiness of more people by facilitating the formation of couples among a larger number of individuals.
However, if dissatisfaction or compromise is significant, it cannot be considered happiness.
Therefore, the aim should be to either avoid dissatisfaction and compromise or seek relationships with minimal dissatisfaction and compromise.
As someone who understands the mechanics of romance, I am confident that it is possible for everyone to learn how to be liked by the opposite sex.
By addressing this as part of education, it is conceivable that more people can acquire the skills to be liked by the opposite sex, thus enabling more individuals to engage in romantic relationships.
In this context, it is believed that creating an environment that suggests factors that make one attractive to the opposite sex and providing education on developing these skills would be effective, rather than merely teaching the mechanics of romance.
- Creating Environments for Men to Be Liked by Women: Creating and Expanding Opportunities to Suggest Attractiveness
- Increase the variety of sports, diversify sports interests, incorporate sports into school curricula, and expand the types of sports in extracurricular activities.
- Increase the variety of events and the number of events held.
- Education for Women to Be Liked by Men
- Education on physical attractiveness: Education on hairstyle, makeup, body shape, fashion, and related aspects.
- Education on conversational attractiveness: Teaching how to engage in conversations that are appealing to men.
- Education on behavioral attractiveness: Teaching how to behave in ways that are attractive to men.
- Education on handling specific behaviors: Teaching how to respond to specific male behaviors.
- Creating Opportunities for Men and Women to Meet
- Development of matching apps that allow a large number of men and women to meet fairly.
- Organizing events that facilitate encounters between a large number of men and women and increasing the number of such events.
About Matching Sites (Tools)
Many of the current matching sites and tools prioritize making money, resulting in a system where people with financial resources have an advantage.
Furthermore, because these platforms do not have mechanisms that suppress human instincts, those that align with instincts tend to be more effective.
This also creates an advantage for fraudulent accounts that exploit human instincts.
For example, using photos of attractive individuals, pretending to be wealthy, or impersonating celebrities are tactics that are advantageous but not fair.
These practices can lead to a lack of fairness in providing opportunities for love and may deprive many men and women of chances to connect.
Taking into consideration that many modern societies view infidelity negatively and have introduced monogamy, it can be argued that if someone believes in having a special one in their life, they don’t necessarily need to pursue multiple relationships.
Instead, focusing on that one special person might suffice.
In this context, it’s conceivable that developing a tool that allows people to balance their attention among multiple potential partners could be effective.
This could be achieved by expanding the criteria of attractiveness, allowing for more specific preferences, and providing search filters.
Additionally, to promote the well-being of all individuals and maintain a healthy environment, including features such as profile photo verification, user ratings based on real-life meetings, and account removal in cases of consistently poor ratings, could be beneficial.
Considering the points mentioned above, the development of a global matchmaking app is proposed.
Developing such an app would require funding (approximately $100,000).